Teamkilling and ppl camping at gates is really starting to agitate me, is there any way to host your own server?
You're missing the point of AoP - its about four factions fighting to control a city. In my faction (Family), if our gate is being camped we ask for a deathsquad to purify our gate.
If someone is TKing you, stay away from them or get friends in your faction that TK back. Or join another faction - I would suggest Family but we're running short on prey already.
Also, don't forget:
1. You can camp their gate with your friends.
and
2. You can decamp your gate by killing the campers with your friends.
and
3. You can see if there are people near the entrance through town preview
and
4. You can use your enemies' gates to enter the Core, too.