So, when someone ask you to be a bit less selfish and consider your surroundings, that person has a big ego, and not you ? I wouldn't call it different view, but denial. About "balance" this is something many people actually worked on, despite the barrier of color flags, with varying success, but i didn't see you amongs those people. (not saying the current state of the server is the most unbalanced we seen. It is better than some other periods, if we exclude mentioning the BBoys) But if you consider those selfless guys as big egos, i don't know what else to say. Hopefully, you will soften a bit when getting older.
As a side note, when members of a team spend so much time trying to advocate TKing, it doesn't convince me well that there is no infighting in it... But you would say it is different view...